Thursday 20 September 2012

Should Rob and Kristen reconcile?


I remembered instantly fallen in love with Cedric Diggory of Harry Potter and The Goblet of Fire. Mrs. Rowling had portrayed the character as remarkably gorgeous, tall (of cause), devoted prefect of Hogwart and a champion in the Tiriwizard Tournament. And the movie released, my heart grow fonder over him even more. Undeniably because of dangerously handsome young Robert Pattinson (Rob) played Cedric. Yippee!!!

Hmm, no wonder he managed to secure a role in Twilight. Look at him above, pale skin and motionless. Mirroring Mr. Cullen closely. 
When the heartthrob Rob played mysterious vampire, Edward Cullen in Twilight series, again I was insanely in love with him. Yet, when I have to learn that he dated (or still dates) his co-cast Kristen Stewart (Kristen), my heart crashed into pieces. (T_T). Worst, he was so madly in love with her. All his eyes were tailing her trail. His eyes shone with smile whenever she’s around. I dimly remembered the reason of stop watching the series. The last I managed to watch was the Twilight Saga: Eclipse.

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“I have footage of their first meeting at my dining-room table,” Hardwicke says. “Kristen was like, ‘It’s got to be Rob!’ She felt connected to him from the first moment. That electricity, or love at first sight, or whatever it is.” Hardwicke gave him the part, but he had to make a promise. –Popsugar. By the way, Catherine Hardwicke directed all the Twilight Saga series.

Everyone just went obsessive over this power Hollywood couple. How they both instantly connected to one another from the very first moment their eyes met. They had so much in common, from their passion of their work, their love of reading, sharing the same value of life and to almost everything. Out of sudden, like Tsunami slammed the Hollywood, Kristen was captured cuddling tenderly with director, Rupert Sanders. (What!! Married man might appear nerve-wracking for super young and confused lady like her. But, hey!! You have the highest-paid Hollywood actor along your side, and he is wholeheartedly in love with you. What are you thinking, Kristen?) Although both of them (Kristen and Rupert) publicly apologized over the what-they called stupid mistake, both of their partners tore apart.

However, I’m secretly praying for their reconciliation. Knowing that the reconciliation requires tremendous hard works and sacrifices from both, many find the exit as the quick solution. The most crucial part is they must believe that the flame is enough to put in the work of patching the cracked relationship. It would be long and arduous proses. Having a patience and perseverance are the seed to succeed in this second go. Regaining the broken trust shall be a continual battle. Insecurity shall always haunt along the path. The forgiver couldn’t sleep soundly with ‘will she cheat on my back again?’ buzzing all the time. They wouldn’t resist the temptation of having own affair to even the fault. While the so-called-betrayer shall consistently trying to prove they've changed and being transparent enough about what they have been up to and where to. Heart-to-heart conversation is essential to make it happens. Both parties are responsible for the deal-breaking. Tiny issues may frequently negligence, but in the long runs become parasites that threaten the relationship.

To end, if we believe that the chosen path is right, but raining and storm seem won’t stop, never turn back, and just keep on moving. 

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